Christmas party flirting – How to have fun without getting your P45

We don’t need to tell you that it’s Christmas. There have been festive displays in shops since September and in case that wasn’t enough, the snow created a National Winter Wonderland. ‘Tis the season to be jolly, which means it’s Christmas parties a go-go for the foreseeable few weeks.

Now, depending on your circumstances and previous experiences, you may eagerly await your office shindig or perhaps be dreading it. Either way, it’s always helpful to have a few handy hints on how to let your hair down without regretting it the next day.

The best thing about a work do is without a doubt the free (or at the very least subsidised) booze - to take advantage of this is only human, but alas it also carries a certain degree of risk. We’re definitely fans of a cheeky drunken snog; everyone knows a couple whose romance bloomed from these very beginnings. However, you don’t want your beer goggles causing more grief than it’s worth. Arrggh! It’s so tricky. So what can you do?

The answer is simple. You can flirt your socks off! It’s fun, a bit cheeky and we all do it! Apparently 63% of Brits admit to flirting more than five times a day, according to a recent survey from Flirtomatic. Keeping it flirty, merry and playful will guarantee that you have a good time without any nasty repercussions. Well, that’s the theory anyway!

So here are Flirtomatic’s do’s and don’ts for flirtatious antics at your Office Christmas Shindig:

TIPS

Set the right intention: We tend to find carefree people attractive. If you rock up to the party with the sole aim of pulling, then you might come across as too keen, or worse, desperate. If instead you focus on just having a good night out, then you’ll massively increase your chances. It’s hard to trick yourself, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try!

Banter is King: A good way of testing your compatibility with someone is to see if your senses of humour are on a level. A bit of gentle teasing is perfect flirting etiquette. Keep it fun and don't get into ‘deep and meaningfuls’ - they will never serve you well.

Look into my eyes: Eye contact is a most powerful tool when flirting. Used subtly, a sustained glance (when combined with our other tips) is a sure fire way to let the other person know that you’re into them, without being too full on.

Lone wolves succeed: No one wants to get rejected in front of an audience, so make sure that every now and then you excuse yourself from the group for a few moments, in order to give your person of interest the opportunity to approach you.

Keep it light: Parties are supposed to be fun remember? Whilst we all have our fair share of troubles, now is not the time to think about them. Stick to topical rather than traumatic conversations.

Be nice: Chuck a few compliments into the mix and you’re on your way. We once heard that people don’t remember what you say, but how you make them feel. A kind word or two will ensure that you make the other person feel good, which will increase your chances no end.

AND FINALLY, WHATEVER YOU DO………..

Try not to puke and/or fall over. If you get a bit too squiffy don’t forget to reach for the good stuff – a pint of everyone’s friend H2O. Not only is a drunken mess unattractive, but a reputation as the office lightweight does no one any favours.

Find out more at: flirtomatic.com